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Here’s one of the great ironies of dating: The women who say that you’re a guy that “any girl would love to have as a boyfriend” are also the LEAST likely to actually go out with you. Heck, you might be what those women would call “quality boyfriend material”, but for some reason, they themselves would NEVER want to get romantically involved with you. Ask them on a date, and these women who think so highly of you will also be the first ones to also turn you down. You know why? It’s not because they’re lying to you or playing head games. They truly believe every word they’re telling you. The thing is, they can’t see themselves being the actual woman in the relationship they think you’re so ready for. In other words, these women feel no CHEMISTRY around you. And that’s really what attraction is all about: hardwiring a woman’s mind to see you in a certain way. Women who only see you as a friend can only imagine you ending up with someone who deserves you. However, their fr...

To write this blog post, I personally surveyed  thousands  of men and women to find out what men  really  think about women, love, sex, and commitment … … what questions women  really  want answered about the men in their lives … … and how to boil it all down into a few simple, easily-applicable principles that you can use to improve your love life RIGHT NOW. You’re about to dip your toe in a vast underground pool of private, behind-the-scenes “locker-room” information – a  secret relationship resource  for a select few of the smartest women, designed to teach you the hard-to-handle truth about how men think and what they really feel … …  about  you. You’ll learn how to interpret his secret masculine instincts … how to listen with your heart  to what he’s REALLY saying … and how to recognize the daily patterns of truth and deceit in your  very own relationship. Here’s what this means for you: You’re about to s...

One of the biggest challenges of giving relationship advice to people is telling them like it is while not being too blunt about it. Honestly, I don’t mind sharing my insights whenever the guy in their life is giving them some grief. But the thing I’ve noticed with these poor gals is that their problems aren’t just AVOIDABLE, but also caused by their OWN doing. At first, you’d think these girls have the worst of luck when it comes to men. Why else would they wind up with one jerk after another? But the hard truth is that these losers are in their lives because they ALLOWED it to happen. They may not have any control over their guy’s jerky behavior, but ENABLING it is another matter. Sometimes, I feel like telling them that it’s THEIR fault for putting up with it, but constructive advice is a lot more effective than playing the blame game. Based on my own experience, I’ve learned a little trick to break the nasty cycle of dating the same jerk over and over. After I made a ...

No one said it was easy to become the best man you could possibly be to attract women. Any guy knows that he’s putting himself on the line every time he’s out there, interacting with the opposite sex. Any way you look at it, the dating scene can be a tough gig to play. But then again, anything of value requires time and effort, doesn’t it? For some guys, they understand that investing themselves comes with the territory. They get that they need to work on themselves physically, mentally and attitude-wise if they’re interested in a flourishing dating life. Unfortunately, some men run into their share of bad luck and end up being bitter and resentful when things go south. They have trouble rolling with the punches and getting back on their feet. But the truth is that dating can often be an uphill effort for the majority of the male population. However, you should bear in mind that the payoff is pretty sweet. Imagine having more dates in your calendar than you can handle and...

So maybe you’re not the most handsome guy on the planet. Big deal. Thousands of other men aren’t exactly head turners either, but that hasn’t stopped them from getting the women they want. You might say that those who aren’t gifted in the looks department need to be a rock star or business tycoon to attract the ladyfolk. I’m not gonna lie, having money and all that other material stuff definitely won’t make the dating game harder for you. But does that mean average guys don’t stand a chance in the dating game? Heck no. At the end of the day, using these things as the sole source of your attractiveness is going to undermine your overall game. A good sense of style does play a role in reeling in women, but it can become a problem if you blow this role out of proportion. So let’s set the record straight on this now: The way you present yourself only gets your foot in the door. That’s all there is to it. You do need to look good in the sense that it’s a basic requirem...

When it comes to dating, it’s important to realize that it doesn’t stop at attracting men. The other part of the equation is being aware of the stuff that puts relationships at risk. On top of cultivating a good attitude and taking care of yourself, it also makes sense to avoid some key mistakes that can UNDO all your hard work. In this case, ignorance is most definitely NOT bliss. Even if you do manage to get a guy to fall for you, being oblivious to certain behaviors could make him reconsider sticking around. What am I talking about exactly? Read on: #1: Being Needy Call me Captain Obvious, but you know this is true. Even if curbing this annoying trait is common sense, I still see so many women ruin a perfectly fine relationship because of this. For instance, my good friend Janine was telling me about her recent breakup with a guy she’d been dating for about half a year. “I just don’t get it,” she tells me, “things were going great when out of nowhere, he wanted to ha...