One of the biggest challenges of giving relationship advice to people is telling them like it is while not being too blunt about it. Honestly, I don’t mind sharing my insights whenever the guy in their life is giving them some grief. But the thing I’ve noticed with these poor gals is that their problems aren’t just AVOIDABLE, but also caused by their OWN doing. At first, you’d think these girls have the worst of luck when it comes to men. Why else would they wind up with one jerk after another? But the hard truth is that these losers are in their lives because they ALLOWED it to happen. They may not have any control over their guy’s jerky behavior, but ENABLING it is another matter. Sometimes, I feel like telling them that it’s THEIR fault for putting up with it, but constructive advice is a lot more effective than playing the blame game. Based on my own experience, I’ve learned a little trick to break the nasty cycle of dating the same jerk over and over. After I made a ...
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